Via Finding Time To Write, a blog I follow, I’ve discovered another blog that originated a meme that sounds like fun. Books, Biscuits and Tea spearheads the meme “Showcase Sunday: Book Haul” which gives bloggers the opportunity to share the books they’ve read, received in the mail, downloaded, borrowed from the library, put on TBR lists, and any otherwise procured by any means necessary to get that must-have book in your hot little hands. It’s also a great way to share the books that you love, that make you say Yes! and mentally clap your hands as you read.
Right now I’m reading Everybody Was So Young: Gerald and Sara Murphy, A Lost Generation Love Story By Amanda Vaill and I’m enjoying it so much! This story is about the Murphy’s who were at the center of the American expat literary circle in Paris is the 20’s and it’s fascinating. I found this book on the book list “Read This, Not That: Indie Alternatives to Popular Books” compiled by Amy Bonesteel on Paste Magazine. This is the second book on that list that I’ve read and I have to say, her picks over the “popular books” is right on so far.
At the library I have Hard Choices by Hillary Rodham Clinton on hold waiting to be picked up. Hillary is such a great role model for women and has led an exciting, eventful life. Diane Sawyer’s interview with her was so good that I immediately went online to reserve this new book. I’m really looking forward to reading it.
The most recent (within the past few weeks) books I’ve ordered online and received in the mail are
Facing a Lonely West by Helen Losse – I have her previous book of poetry, Seriously Dangerous, and I enjoyed it immensely. Her poetry is both down to earth and ethereal. Hard to explain, you have to read her.
Rattle, Spring 2014 – This quarterly journal is a must-have for poetry lovers. Always with a diversity of styles, you’re bound to find something that touches you inside it.
Exquisite Duet, Edited by Meg Tuite – I can’t wait to start this little gem of a book as I’m (virtually) acquainted with several of the writers. And the cover art is fantastic!
Don’t you just love getting great books in the mail?!
Be sure to go over and visit Books, Biscuits and Tea and peruse the other meme participants for more great book ideas. You know you need some more titles for your To-Read list.
Bald Eagle – Pontchartrain Park, New Orleans
Photo by Bayou Creole
I like watching movies, especially obscure little indie movies that almost no one’s heard of or, at least, that I haven’t heard of. Recently I watched “Another Happy Day” (2011) a dark comedy starring Ellen Barkin, Ellen Burstyn, Thomas Haden Church, Demi Moore, Kate Bosworth, George Kennedy, and, one of my favorite good-bad guy actors, Ezra Miller. The film is written and directed by Sam Levinson who won the 2011 Waldo Salt Screenwriting Award at the Sundance Film Festival for this film. I chose this movie strictly based on a great cast, only knowing it was about a large family getting together for a wedding. Ha! It was far from a simple family dramady.
The story is about a family week-end in Annapolis where the estranged son of mom Lynn (Barkin) is getting married at the estate of the Grandparents (Burstyn and Kennedy). Lynn arrives with her two sons in tow, a 17-year old who is a volatile, wise-ass druggie who’s just come home from his 5th rehab stay (Miller) and a 13 year old who has (a little bit of) Asperger’s. A daughter (Bosworth), a cutter, joins the family later. Lynn’s two sisters, their husbands and kids are already there and immediately you sense the hostility and derision they have for Lynn and her kids and you see this throughout most of the movie. Lynn has hopes for a happy reunion with her betrothed son whom she has seen very little over the years because he lives with her first husband and his wife Patty (Moore), an aggressive, aging trophy wife and (allegedly) ex-stripper.
If you think you have a crazy, dysfunctional family you really should watch this film. This is the most f-bombed up family I’ve ever seen and it made me feel ecstatic that mine is so tame! Lest you think this film sounds depressing it actually isn’t. These characters are multi-layered, complicated, issue-driven and tragically comical, at times. Miller’s portrayal of the cynical druggie son vacillates between chuckle-inducing smart-ass juvenile humor and plain old selfish meanness that makes you want to slap the shit out of him. Demi Moore’s portrayal of second wife Patty is the typical middle-ageing beauty who wants everyone to think she’s still hot but she is one cray-cray drama queen who appears to have everyone fooled. I looked everywhere to find a photo of her in her black step-mom-of-the-groom dress with a huge white ruffle down the back that looks like a dragon tail but this is the best I could find. (See the trailer below!) The dynamics between her and Lynn could be a hit “reality” TV show.
The people in this family have so many layers of issues and craziness that they could fill their own DSM. Not a moment of this film is boring and I think you will find yourself, like me, exclaiming over and over “this family is so effed up!” The acting is superb, especially Barkin whose every emotion plays across her face like a symphony.
I could write so, so much about this movie but I won’t because I want you to watch it yourself. It’s a movie about love, hate, heartbreak, life, death, teenage problems, mental and emotional disorders, marriages, and of course, family. It’s a great story with great actors and great dialog. What more could you want?
Today I have for you (channeling the chefs on “Chopped” which I just finished watching!) a little list of some of the good things and bad things that I read on the internet in the past week. Most of them are from other blogs, some from NOLA, some not. It’s just a hodge-podge of articles that I liked or …… didn’t, but all are decidedly shareable.
Road trip! Follow Ian McNulty on a trip down the bayou to Terrebone Parish in Bayou Country journey offers glimpse of small-town life at the end of the line.
Local blogger Blathering shares her recent outing to City Park’s Botanical Gardens with a walk through Enrique Alferez’s sculptures in her weekly feature “Arty Tuesday”.
“Blackberries Everywhere” , via Bouillie blog, takes us along to pick wild blackberries in rural Louisiana and adds a bonus of a recipe for Blackberry Cornmeal Cake that sounds scrumptious. The photos of the finished cake made my mouth water and put it on my list of recipes to try this summer.
I’m always complaining to myself that I don’t have the kind of time I’d like to read. This is really not exactly true since I often end up surfing the internet when my intention was to read my ebook. I even tweeted about it. So I was happy to find this post, 7 tips to help you read more (& love it).
#YesAllWomen was a hashtag on fire on Twitter this past week. It apparently first popped up Friday 5/23 in the aftermath of the Elliot Rodger shooting spree in California in response to his misogynist rants on YouTube. When social media takes up a cause like this, I find it much more interesting and enlightening to read personal blogs written by everyday people to get a feel for how the issue affects or is affecting everyday people. Here are a few blog posts I read this week that touched me (to tears in some cases) and/or just made me think in a different way, breaking open the festering sore of misogyny.
First, here’s a link to a Vanity Fair article that includes a graphic showing how the hashtag spread worldwide.
Brandi writes a very personal account of her experience of being bullied by a boy (and, yes, it was bullying) at age 11. I really identified with this post because I experienced the same thing at the same age and I remember the humiliation I felt.
Roxane Gay’s post, In Relief of Silence and Burden, is a heartbreaker written in the unmistakably honest voice that is Roxane Gay. Reading this made my stomach hurt.
Walking While Fat and Female – Or Why I Don’t Care Not All Men Are Like That was an eye-opener. I guess I’m naive but it never occurred to me that adult men acted this way.
And, from the men:
My Girl’s a Vegetable: A Father’s Response To Isla Vista Shootings in Luna Luna Magazine shares how a dad’s eyes were opened to the every day misogyny directed to women via his daughter’s experience while walking home from school.
Local Blogger Ian McGibboney writes “A Letter To All the Nice Guys”and makes some really good points.
And, finally, Emily Shire says “#YesAllWomen Has Jumped the Shark” and wonders if it’s being diluted by people tweeting about such things as “complaints about women being told to smile”. What do you think?
New-To-Me Blog of the Week
To end on a lighter note, I want to share a blog each week (or so) that’s new to me and that I enjoyed reading – you know, show a little link love.This week it’s The Art of Simple, a blog that shares ways to live a simpler, more meaningful life as well as giving great organizational tips. Give it a click, I think you’ll like it!
Recently I was reading through the archives of Women’s Voices For Change when I came across a post that included this video of Dustin Hoffman talking about his preparation for his role in Tootsie (which I apparently missed when it first aired). He talks about how he realized that he had been editing the women he chose to pursue relationships with based on looks and how that knowledge has changed him. Take a look.